Women how do you deal with this {A little long but really need advice}?

My husband is a great husband but lately I have noticed something that is really bothering me and tonight I kinda lost it. We have a two year old daughter and we responsibilities Tuesday was his day to watch her then one Tuesday he asked me if I could pick her up and the next week he asked me again then every Tuesday it was something until he just stopped asking and it became my responsibility. Then we used to take turns getting her dressed in the morning and he stopped getting up early so he winds up rushing and Istar teed getting her dressed. Now today we were both home and he sat in the room all day and watched TV and barley came out the room I cooked breakfast, lunch dinner, washed her up ,took her for nap, cleaned and did the laundry and every time I went in the room he says he is working on something. Now I love them both but he did not even come out of the room to have dinner with us and today I did not get any of my work done again we both work full time, We have the same schedule and yet I feel what he does is more important than what I do. Then I went into the room and said can you pick her up Tuesday he says sure then he says oh you know what I forgot have to come home late Wednesday and Thursday to do extra work at school . That really made me angry and I kinda felt like he was doing that so I would have to get her. Tonight when I tried to put her to sleep she just kept screaming so I had enough I went in the living room and said your daughter is not sleeping and I am going to sleep goodnight and walked away. He yelled through the room what do you want me to do I'm doing work on the computer I did not answer { I actually thought about throwing the computer} then he came in the room where I was and I said I am really tired and I am going to sleep and did not say anything else to him, My daughter is yelling for me but I really feel like I am going to explode I am so freaking tired but I feel guilty and odnt know what is wrong with me. He is a video teacher so I know his work is done on the computer but I feel like this is not FAIR. Why did he stop helping I want to go get her but I feel like it is wrong that I have to do everything we had this baby together why am I stuck doing everything, Am I overreacting and how do I get things to go back to where we are both sharing the duties. I tried talking to him a while ago and he got such an attitude I just said forget it. Should I just get her she has to be up early for day care and I could probably put ehr to sleep if i turn off all the lights in the room.